Guruji, I am
not feeling good today. Whenever he wants, he bullies me. I cannot do anything
of my own free will. Not even a dress can I wear as per my own wish. If I wear a red
dress, he says why you are dressed like a red baboon.
My husband does not like anything about me. I
can't live with him anymore. Gudiya, who had brought her problems to the
institute was continuously speaking.
After five
years of marriage, it was intolerable for her. She was very upset with her
husband Mohan. They had a son. She wanted to take him away with her.
Guru ji kept
listening to her calmly. Said, “Very good, you must leave such a person. I will
see how you will get separated. Till then, follow the plan, I tell you.
Yes Guru ji,
her tension was reduced. She felt calm by Guruji's consent.
Guru ji
said, till you get separated, chant the divine love mantra and don’t answer back to him. Think in mind that you
are already separated . Don’t let him know, but you behave as if he is not
present. Talk as little as possible. When there is no concern, why to reply his
obligations. No reaction is needed.
Keep in
mind, he doesn’t knows that you are preparing to separate. He will speak and
complain as before but you have to be careful. Now come after fifteen days. Gudiya
went satisfied.
We asked
Guruji,”Are you going to separate Gudiya from her husband?”.
Guru ji
smiled. If she will accept my words and follow it her marriage will not break. The aspirations
from her husband that he should praise her, accept her, will decrease. Being
steady will end her prejudices and save her home.
If the prejudices
of the mind end, then the problem also ends.
Guru kripa hi
kevalam.
Divya prem pragat
ho,rog shok nasht ho I